
I made a lot of calls on a barely-working cell phone to family and friends back in Ohio. Between dropped calls, I had plenty of time to think about family dynamics and the nature of connections. I wonder if I was too hasty in my decision to move out here. Mars Girl, your post came at just the right time. I'm going to give Seattle another year... maybe a couple more years... and re-evaluate. They say that home is the place where, if you have to go there, they have to take you in, right? Maybe I needed to move here in order to stop taking home (and many of you, dear readers!) for granted.
The highlight of my weekend was lunch with my mom's cousin, who moved out here 30 years ago and never looked back. She is not the easiest person to get to know. I'm glad I talked her into meeting me. I was worried I might not recognize her, but there was a definite "oh yeah, I'm related to that person" moment. Compared to my mom and aunt, she chose a completely different life, but some of her mannerisms are so much like theirs it's scary.
My mom's cousin reminded me to be deeply thankful for memories of my maternal grandparents. They both passed away when I was in junior high. My middle sister doesn't remember them before they were sick, and my youngest sister doesn't remember them at all, which is really a shame. J's MySpace profile says our grandparents are the people she'd most like to meet now that she's old enough to appreciate who they were. They were the best kind of small town people... warm, accepting, genuinely friendly, and generous with their time and talents.




